This blog is a about a search, perhaps an impossible one. What the search is about is to find a companion, a partner in crime so to speak, a lover,and someone who does not think that champagne for breakfast is a bad thing, the list could gone one forever. The catch is that I am looking for a woman near my own age. is It appears to be grail quest at the moment.
This should not be that hard you are probably thinking. What would be so hard to find a woman in her fifties who is attractive, intelligent, and likes to read a book once in awhile. The catch is I am not willing to settle for just anyone, because I never been able to settle. This woman needs to to set my heart racing, challenge my intellect, have some style and grace and feminite. I will know it when I see and feel it. I suppose I want to be in love, like everyone else. Life and the persuit of happiness.
Why restrict myself to woman in their fifties ? Does that not limit my search options ? Younger woman can be pretty, stylish and for most men a ego boost, to have some sweet young thing on their arms. I have found that older woman have a grace and style that only experience and living life can bring. Pretty softens into beauty. Being in fashion changes into a style that has evolved with the woman. An older woman is like a aged bottle of wine, just smother silkier and and a lot more complex.
I am a single man, older, mid fifties. I live in the Pacific Northwest. I have had my share of failed relationships, which hopefully I have learned from. I have come to grips of my share of the reasons of why they failed. I can eat with a knife and fork, can read a wine list and can tie a tie. I have a tux for opening night at the ballet or the opera. I still open doors and stand when a lady enters the room. I do have a edge though, and I am not a nine to five type of guy. My work is creative and have periods of long hours, but have some down time as well. My woman friends which I have many, and my ex’s who have become friends, say that I am difficult but interesting, and definitively not boring.People have said that I am the definition of an Aries, what ever you can read into that.
To aid in my search I have decided to perhaps unwisely, to use online dating. I am on three different sites at the moment, I have to find which works for me. I have written profiles posted pictures, taken personality tests have listed my like dislikes and likes. I have listed my religious beliefs my favorite sports, what colors I like and measured the length of my fingers . I now have placed this for the world to see. We will see what the reception shall be, will I be shunned or be judged acceptable? How will my ego handle rejection ? Is the woman of my dreams out there some where ? How long will the search be.
I am on a path of online dating, this blog will be about how it all works out, or does not work out. The names and places will be changed to protect the innocent and the guilty.
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